With constant and instant communication, young people struggle to understand and tolerate the patience required in past relationships. Before smartphones and social media, men and women connected through handwritten letters that took weeks to deliver, scheduled phone calls limited by high cost, and long waits to meet in person. Each interaction was intentional and cherished.
This unavoidable pacing taught patience and presence. Every letter, call, and meeting had deeper meaning because of the effort behind it. While today’s constant connectivity has its obvious perks, the past reminds us that love thrives on intention and not immediacy. By embracing a little of this old-school patience, modern relationships can regain depth and appreciation.
