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Serving NJ & NYC for over 40 years

Professional and Compassionate Counseling

Comprehensive therapy for adults, teens, children & families, delivered by an experienced team that combines clinical expertise with the warmth, attention, and individualized support of a boutique, family-owned practice.

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A familiar name, a new chapter. Search for Self is the evolution of Mars & Venus Counseling Center, the same clinicians and the same standard of care our community has trusted for more than 40 years, serving Bergen County, Morris County, and beyond.

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Welcome toSearch for Self

We believe meaningful therapy begins with feeling truly seen and understood. We combine the clinical expertise and resources of a multi-location group practice with the warmth and personal attention of a boutique, family-owned practice. Here, you're never just a number. Our therapists take the time to know you, your experiences, goals, and challenges, so care is always thoughtful and individualized. You will receive comprehensive, customized support that meets you where you are and helps you move forward with clarity and confidence.

For over 40 years, our center has stood apart. We choose experience, skill, and real-world insight. Our counselors are carefully selected, deeply trained, and committed to lasting change. We focus on quality over quantity, people over trends, and genuine care over shortcuts.

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What Sets Us Apart

Three commitments that define our practice and your experience with us.

Experienced, Tenured Therapists

Our therapists have been with us for many years with remarkably low turnover. Every clinician is independently licensed, having met rigorous education and clinical training requirements with thousands of hours of supervised experience.

Intentional Therapist Matching

We take the time to find the ideal fit, tailoring a therapeutic connection between you and your therapist. We focus on your comfort, individual needs, and experiences, an intentional matching process that marks the start of your collaborative journey.

Stress-Free Insurance Navigation

We take the stress away from navigating insurance policies and coverage. We offer a complimentary benefits check, review your plan and explain your options, and submit all of your claims for you. We handle the insurance details so that you can focus on your well-being.

What We Treat

Search for Self offers personalized psychotherapy for individuals, couples, children, and families across multiple office locations and virtual sessions. We provide comprehensive therapy delivered by an experienced team.

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Anxiety & Stress

Racing thoughts, panic, irritability, or avoidance keeping you stuck? You deserve relief and calm.
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Relationships & Family Dynamics

Recurring fights, disconnection, or unmet needs? Rebuild trust and communication together.
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Depression & Low Mood

Feeling empty, unmotivated, or disconnected from joy? We'll help you find your way back.
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Child & Teen Concerns

Worried about your child's emotions, behavior, or struggles at school? We're here to help.
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Life Changes & Transitions

Navigating divorce, new parenthood, job loss, or major change? Find clarity and support.
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Burnout & Exhaustion

High achievers, professionals, caregivers, and parents, you give so much. It's okay to ask for support.
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Trauma & Its Effects

Flashbacks, hypervigilance, or emotional numbness? Heal from the past at your own pace.
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Substance Use & Recovery

Struggling with addiction or supporting a loved one? Break the cycle with caring guidance.
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Nutrition Support

Food and mood are deeply connected. Get guidance on nourishing your body and mind together.
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Grief & Bereavement

Loss can feel overwhelming. Find compassionate support as you honor your grief journey.
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Why Choose Us

Compassionate care, made accessible

Daytime, evening & weekend hours
Spanish-speaking therapists available
Virtual & in-person sessions
Most insurances welcomed
Free insurance clarification
We submit claims for you

What Our Clients Are Saying

Real stories from real people whose lives have been transformed through our counseling services.

You saved our marriage.
D.C. Couples Counseling
Today my husband and I are celebrating our 33rd Anniversary. We sat in your office 31 years ago at a loss... Thank you for your help.
B & F Marriage Therapy
I can't begin to thank you for all you've helped me with... Your incredible expertise, undivided attention, support, patience, and professionalism are quite extraordinary.
Diane M. Individual Therapy
Self-care for me is chatting with my therapist. She is great, I LOVE her!!
Michelle H. Individual Counseling
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Start Your Journey to Wellness

Getting started is simple, just a friendly conversation. Our Intake Specialist is here to guide you through every step, making the process comfortable and stress-free. Reach out today and let us help you take that first step toward feeling better.

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