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Sharing phone passcodes is less about privacy and more about emotional needs. Men often need space to feel respected, while women need openness to feel secure. Pushing for access too early can backfire: he may feel controlled, and she may feel excluded or suspicious.

When a man understands what a woman needs and chooses to share his passwords freely, it helps her feel reassured. Likewise, when a woman understands how a man works and doesn’t apply pressure, he’s more likely to open up on his own. This level of trust usually grows with commitment.

When a couple is truly committed and understands each other’s emotional needs, sharing phones becomes a sign of trust, not surveillance. This usually happens after mutual emotional security is established, when both feel safe being themselves without fear of judgment, and their feelings are treated with care. Trust like this doesn’t follow a timeline; it grows from genuine connection.